excellent weekend
2006-04-02, 2:37 p.m.

So Hair Guy and I decided to stop denying that we're attracted to each other, and that we're fabulous together, and have become something of an item.

I basically ignored him all night, which he happened to find irresistable (honestly, guys = WEIRD!) And the rest was history. This morning when I left there was no discomfort, no "okay...NOW what do we do?" Nope. When he got out of my car, he laid one on me and said he'd "definitely" see me later. The atmosphere was way hotter than the first time.

Right now we live too far apart for any kind of real relationship, and I don't even think I want one with him. If I'm going to have the work of a relationship, and this may sound crass, it's going to be with someone who has more potential than he does. I mean, we're great together and everything, but he doesn't exactly represent security to me. But whatever, we have a good time, right? I told him that later on I have a date with this guy I met on my personal ad, he's a cop. He said if I meet anyone better than him that's okay, but he doesn't meet many people so I don't have to worry about it. That made me feel kind of bad.

New Guy is still not speaking to him, or to me. He hasn't been at the club since last time we were there together. Hair guy said that sometimes they go long stretches without talking. I don't even care anymore. He wants to get his panties in a bunch that is no longer my issue.